It's A Two Way Street (His & Hers)

Ladies, we’re ALWAYS screaming independent this and independent that. “I don’t need a man for anything” or “I can do this or that on my own” but when that check comes, y’all looking right at that man to come out his pockets. Now I know what you’re going to say “Well he’s the man, he should pay.” Okay well it was also said that, we should stay in the house, cook, clean and take care of the kids, but we don’t live by those rules anymore do we? I guess what I’m trying to get at is that, it is okay to treat your man sometimes, just like it is okay for him to cook or clean sometimes (I will write about that later) A man wants to feel appreciated just like we do ladies. It’s okay to say “Babe, I got it!” or “Let ME take you out tonight.”  Some men work so hard their whole relationship trying to satisfy their women and they don’t even get that in return. Taking them out goes a long way. TRUST ME. Men are not as hard to please as us women . So if you can show your appreciation by one day just getting up and doing something nice for him, you’ll get that in return tenfold. It’s not even just picking up the check. He has some recent accomplishments? Celebrate him and send him flowers or edibles. He’s had a hard day? Rub his back. Like I said men really are not hard to please, they are simple creatures. We as women are just so stuck on making sure that he does what he’s supposed to do for us, that we totally disregard their feelings sometimes. Now of course it has to be a man worthy to do these things for. By no means am I saying every man deserves this but for the ones that do, ladies take the time to show him some gratitude. Me personally, I don’t believe in 50/50, I believe in 100/100. It’s not about the unwritten rules on who is supposed to do what and assigning task based on what society thinks men and women should do. Whatever needs to be done, we will both do it or whoever can at the time, will get it done. You need it or don’t have it, I got it and I expect the same in return. You have to match my efforts and I have to match yours. I’m going to bring as much to the table as you. I will never give anyone an opportunity to say they did for me and I didn’t do for them. It’s not a pride thing either, I just really believe in holding up my end of the bargain as a woman. In relatioships, people get so caught up on what the man should do or what the woman should do and they forget to work as a team. Anyway, I think I kind of rambled on and got a little off track, but I hope you get my point. Ladies do for your man what you want him to do for you. Just like he needs to be kept, you aren’t irreplaceable either. Later dolls...

Yours Truly,

Sabrina ❤️